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You will always be getting praise and blame, but do not let either affect the poise of the mind: follow the calmness, the absence of pride.

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You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She’s not perfect—you aren’t either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break—her heart. So don’t hurt her, don’t change her, don’t analyze and don’t expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she’s not there.

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i like that we say “oh, man” to express disappointment

because men are disappointing

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I should have loved you less.
I should have loved myself more.

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  • AnonymousShut the fuck up about 50 shades of grey. No one fucking cares
  • infamousmoriarty

    oh hun

    let me just give you a quick run down of all the things wrong with this ask:

    1-you assume i care what some asshole anon has to say when i have 300 pounds and i’m going kikass birthday shopping today

    2-you assume id care about some asshole anon any other day of the year

    3-i care about the 50 shades of grey thing. and whether you do or not is irrelevant to me because you are, after all, just an asshole anon

    4- this is my blog and i’ll post whatever the fuck i want, if you cant take three fucking posts about something without turning into a soggy cum stained dishrag then i suggest you make use of that unfollow button because youre gross

    5- lemme break this down for you

    if you dont care about this 50 shades situation, you need to grow the fuck up and look at the facts

    the fact is the book was so misinformed that all the practises about bdsm culture were ignored and shit all over.

    he ignores the safeword

    he legitimately rapes her

    he never explains everything about bdsm culture to her, shes so misinformed its ridiculous

    and all of this is going even more public than it already has and its being romanticised and released on valentines day 

    like “happy valentines honey! i bought some ropes i dont actually know how to tie and a whip i dont actually know how to use and i’m going to just gloss over the fact you’re uncomfortable because that clearly doesnt matter!”

    incorrect use of a whip can cause organ failure

    incorrect knots used on wrists or feet can literally cause them to need to be amputated

    its perpetuating rape culture in ways ive never seen it be advanced to this leve; and if you dont care then youre truly disgusting 

    you dont care about the kids not fully understanding their sexuality being abused by older people who they think are totally allowed to do this shit?

    you dont care about the people that will be raped because of this because hey apparently rape is sexy?

    you dont care about the fact that the bdsm culture is, once again, being portrayed as people who are fucked up and must have been abused to be that way rather than normal people who enjoy a kink in their own homes?

    you dont care about the fact that youre not supposed to bleed on your first time. ever. and now tons more girls are going to think that its completely normal? that tons more guys will? that tons of people are going to think its expected for the female to bleed when SHE WONT IF SHES BEEN SUFFICIENTLY TURNED ON AND STRETCHED ITS REALLY NOT THAT HARD

    you dont care about the stereotype of subs not actually enjoying bdsm culture is being widespread? that all subs dislike it and simply have an ulterior motive?

    you dont care about the underlying message of the book being “a woman should give everything, including herself, to a man”?

    you dont care about all the people in abusive relationships that will think “oh well this must be normal then” and stay there?

    christian grey is a run-of-the-mill abusive boyfriend. he isnt a dom. 

    a dom loves his/her sub completely and the motto of bdsm is "safe, willing and sane" (or something like that anyone feel free to correct me)

    it means that both partners have to be completely willing, with boundaries, safewords and everything worked out before they even think about touching eachother intimately. 

    if something is a boundary, you dont fucking do it

    that simple

    if the safeword is used it stops. everything stops

    that simple

    a dom should treat his sub like a goddamn princess (unless they have prearranged and understand that he wont eg-pet play, slave play where anything outside of the bedroom is also in the same dynamic HOWEVER IT IS STILL CONSENSUAL SO IT IS STILL OKAY)

    a dom is not christian grey

    but millions of people are going to think he is and are going to think that thats the way bdsm should be and they’ll get involved in something very dangerous if they dont have the real facts.

    that people will think its romantic because this shit is scheduled for valentines day  to treat your partner like shit, abuse her, and that what? getting them off absorbs you of all your shit? no. this is so fucking gross and im not taking a backseat when this shit happens

    so in conclusion

    literally fuck you, you insensitive fuck stain, this issue is so fucking important.

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they call this venting

alexa-turnup:

I’m genuinely happy for all those that work their ass off to receive everything they’ve wanted and everything they’ve worked night and day for what pisses me off is those who do nothing and get everything handed to them while the others that are still working their ass off barely have a good day. Just be grateful and humble with what you’ve already accomplished and work for those goals bc were not going to get it on a silver plate, it just ain’t happening that way

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buying clothes that aren’t black is hard

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